Desires- A play ground for ADULTS…


Event Organized By  Desire Riviera Maya Resort   Submerge yourself in the Desire experience, a world of erotic pleasure, where fulfilling your fantasies and waking your senses is your only objective. Lose yourself in the sensuality of a couples-only ambience, full of respect and intimacy, vibrating in pleasure without limits, where clothing is optional. Participate in … Continue reading Desires- A play ground for ADULTS…

What is it about being a “Voyeur”?


Before I write this I can only understand this Kink by reading what others are or they see it as so if you are one please send me a hello because I would love to sit down with you and understand what is it about watching that turns your dial to wild?   A voyeur … Continue reading What is it about being a “Voyeur”?

Prepare to be “Betazzelled” Welcome to Candiis Gosip momento!


Think you’ve visited them all? Well, guess what - there’s more! Here’s a list of the best, but not so well-known, swingers clubs around the country and what it’s like to step inside their kinky doors... Of course I am talking about Europe not Australia!   Best Unknown UK Swingers Clubs: For Like-minded Lads and … Continue reading Prepare to be “Betazzelled” Welcome to Candiis Gosip momento!

Deflecting from oneself, is it good or bad?


What is deflecting? Well, it is a behaviour I would not call it a good behaviour especially if it is used to deflect your own issues over to another person because your not ready to deal with them or you're that full of yourself that you think your shit is worth smelling?? Sorry, I really … Continue reading Deflecting from oneself, is it good or bad?

Music is the melody of growth


I love and adore music it's really quite something when you either want to chill out or maybe understand how your feeling even when your subconscious had a twilight Moment" at her parent's place as a realisation! Whatever the moment is sometimes it is a cure and at times it will draw yourself back especially … Continue reading Music is the melody of growth

Kinky Sex: The Difference Between BDSM and Abuse


BDSM Correlated With Better Mental Health, well, I am happy with that... let's do it all over again and again.. BDSM, an acronym for “bondage, discipline/dominance, submission, and sadomasochism” is often misunderstood by the general public. One of the most common misconceptions is that BDSM is dangerous, reckless, and abusive. However, when practised properly, BDSM … Continue reading Kinky Sex: The Difference Between BDSM and Abuse

Sweet Combination…


There are some things in life that you just cannot explain nor would you really!!! Imagine that you discovered an excellent way of communicating how your really wired and you stuck to your thoughts, feelings, ideas, as strange and definitely outside your own comfort zone, not to mention others that you felt, something just was … Continue reading Sweet Combination…

Men and Sex, go figure!


Right, how do I start this post with?! When you think you know men, well let me give you the hot tip ladies, there is no way on this earth we will ever understand the male when it comes to sex! And praise the Lord that we don't there are some things that are best … Continue reading Men and Sex, go figure!

Menopause Crazy Head has Landed!!


I have menopause and I seem to not be coping with seems to be a lot of things lately my dad's sick and I seem to be avoiding seeing him, plus, also just most things these days are very hard for me or perhaps I am making them hard.. or harsher... than normal.. Not sure … Continue reading Menopause Crazy Head has Landed!!

Sassy…. Oh, really TINK?!?


Is it men or is it me?? Is it that men see sex as a slab of meat? Or is it that I am a girlie girl and thinks about feelings, emotions, connection, and long walks down a path lit with "tinker-bells"?! Perhaps I am a chick that likes all that stuff?? What the?!?!? We … Continue reading Sassy…. Oh, really TINK?!?

When you don’t know something, Guess what……… Ask?


Ask and you shall be told!............. My God and more my God!............. The things that we think we know about life and then find out that we don't really know!!  WTF, and where the fcuk have I been all these years? I have a feeling I am definitely a chick that has no bloody idea … Continue reading When you don’t know something, Guess what……… Ask?

The Mist is Clearing & I can see!


I would like you to meet my subconscious, her name is "Wanda", I called her that because, I Wanda, when she will let me live my life without regret! #PTSD #DEPRESSION #UNDERSTANDING #GROWTH #NEWBEGINNINGS #JOY #FRIENDSHIPS #FAMILY #PARTNERS #SUBCONSCIOUS ..................by the way, before you read this it needs a bit of polish which means my … Continue reading The Mist is Clearing & I can see!

Friendships are everything…


Friendship means being comfortable around each other in silence. Friendship means being able to tell each other anything and understanding without questions. Friendship means being honest with each other no matter what the cost. ...Friendship means being able to say I love you and miss your funny ways.. There are times and it seems many times that I do … Continue reading Friendships are everything…

Noir Handmade – Coming soon


Coming Soon Here at Noir Handmade, we truly care for and understand our customers. We want to make this experience unlike any other, and we‘re here to make that happen. If at any time you have questions, concerns, or comments, feel free to contact us. Our expert team is standing by, ready and willing to help you … Continue reading Noir Handmade – Coming soon

What does Love mean to you?


Hi Candii here, Here I am up early thinking about life and what Love means to people in this world we seem to live in such an era that the internet and people now are very up close and what seems very personal but, there seems to be such an underlining personal agenda of lust. … Continue reading What does Love mean to you?

Have you ever heard Someone Say:


  I am okay, I have Dealt with:   my husband or boyfriend beating me up ? I have dealt with a child never returning home?  I have dealt with my daughter suicide? I have dealt with being raped? I have dealt with an uncle molesting you? I have dealt with loosing a my unborn … Continue reading Have you ever heard Someone Say:

Mystery Blogger Award Nomination


https://pointlessoverthinking.wordpress.com made me a great honor by nominating me to the Mystery Blogger Award. Thank you so so much for this! What Is Mystery Blogger Award “Mystery Blogger Award” is an award for amazing bloggers with ingenious posts. Their blog not only captivates; it inspires and motivates. They are one of the best out there, and they deserve … Continue reading Mystery Blogger Award Nomination

Most Strings… lovely


Lyrics: https://youtu.be/CVUOTzoVeZA And meet me there, with bundles of flowers We'll wade through the hours of cold winter She'll howl at the walls Tearing down doors of time Shelter as we go And promise me this You'll wait for me only Scared of the lonely arms That surface, far below these birds Maybe, just maybe … Continue reading Most Strings… lovely

Stop dis-empowering yourself because someone said something that made you feel less than..


This blog post was for a person that allowed those people to effect him Acquiescent Soul   https://acquiescentsoulblog.wordpress.com/   What does it mean to be a warrior? There’s a quote by Chogyam Trungpa that I really love: “The essence of warrior ship, or the essence of human bravery, is refusing to give up on anyone or anything.” So when … Continue reading Stop dis-empowering yourself because someone said something that made you feel less than..

The Generation that avoids a Relationship .. interesting video


https://youtu.be/xzDPbrrTQys This Generation wants the easy way there without the drama, they want to swipe left, right and then never go to a date this generation wants everything without lifting a finger. So, what does this mean? They want everything perfect without the heart ache, winging, weddings, everything how do they do that? Easy they … Continue reading The Generation that avoids a Relationship .. interesting video

Wasteland  Summerfest 2018!


Get ready for the second edition of this Post-Apocalyptic festival full of extraordinary live entertainment by international performers. Summerfest is created for those who dare to be who they want to be… celebrating freedom! To create a unique festival atmosphere Wasteland teams up with Kitkatclub (Berlin), Rapido, Miss Jones and Revolver Party (Berlin). Expect a … Continue reading Wasteland  Summerfest 2018!

To a Dear Friend… and Loved ones…


Hey Candii here, (Before I type this I wanted to say this, when you can't identify a strong emotional feeling by name and you know it's amazing..by how it feels or makes you feel effortlessly well, that is love saying your worth it so take my gift back and make sure you 3 never give … Continue reading To a Dear Friend… and Loved ones…

Do you like wearing high heels in bed?


Hey Candii here, Excuse me tonight I am a little odd tonight but, I am about to forward you some interesting facts about High heels and how it tows into being a bit fetish.. Apart from looking hot, or not, it all depends on the attitude, the outfit if you are lucky enough to have … Continue reading Do you like wearing high heels in bed?

Privacy is number 1 in a kink relationship


Handling different levels of openness in kink relationships can be a challenging dynamic; what we share with the world, where we share it, and with whom. As a self-producing performer and writer, Cameryn Moore is very open about her sex life, and over the past eight years, Cameryn's partners have all had varying degrees of … Continue reading Privacy is number 1 in a kink relationship

What is Gaslighting? it is a turds way of expressing how much of a twatt he really is.. and then you moving to better pastures… just saying…


Psst... Guess What... I too have had this happen...to me...so I slapped him and said, snap out of it... Moron.... anyway to those that didnt do what I did.. read on.... Have a read of what the experts say about this wonderful experience that a lot of us go through and it takes us a long … Continue reading What is Gaslighting? it is a turds way of expressing how much of a twatt he really is.. and then you moving to better pastures… just saying…

Mumma Mia.. Dungeons…. and More European Dungeons…. biting my hand off…


Hi Candii here, Okay, I take back that last post and apply this one as my NUMBER 1 BOX TICKER, Mumma, Mia, check these little beauties out.... If your flying to Europe.. hint, hint honey bunny, you have to at least enter at will and check these out.... I suggest a nice spliff before entry … Continue reading Mumma Mia.. Dungeons…. and More European Dungeons…. biting my hand off…

Why do we put labels on sexual roles?


Just because you may classify yourself as a top or bottom, or dom or sub, doesn't mean you can't enjoy a bit of the other during kinky play. Indeed, Fetish.com says if you scrap the labels and switch things up, sex can be a whole lot more enjoyable... The terms “topping” and “bottoming” paint service-oriented sex … Continue reading Why do we put labels on sexual roles?

Play together.. so you can Stay together…


https://youtu.be/grj0ffXzTFA   Life is amazing and scary and many, many things the most terrifying moments for me is to be present... Why? Because of never being able to have the present real.. expectations are never true, the expectations of surprise and happiness taken away within an instance and feeling forever feeling never, ever enough for … Continue reading Play together.. so you can Stay together…

Mental Abuse – Is ABUSE…


What if I told you that ... I also have gone through this feeling of someone making you feel worthless, never feeling your good enough, and it has nothing to do with someone putting their hands on you.. https://www.facebook.com/JayShettyIW/videos/2052660738381714/?t=43   Watch her body language Have you had this done to you like I have ?  … Continue reading Mental Abuse – Is ABUSE…

Meet the Former Monk – Jay Shetty!


https://youtu.be/OmtV0WwNni8    Hey Candii here, I love this man Jay, he is absolutely correct, did you know I have actually heard these words before the only difference with Jay is his quirk was that he was a MONK... his words are already being used by many. This language he is using is perfect but, again … Continue reading Meet the Former Monk – Jay Shetty!

An old friend has visited me again!


https://youtu.be/Q4oInT79CUk   The Sound of Silence what that means to me... is this Nothing in the world is more isolating that lonliness within your soul which I have known this feeling and it seems to love to creep up on me when I least expect it too. The tears that I have wept so many … Continue reading An old friend has visited me again!

Imagine a Club a Secret Club – would you go?


A Club only open to those that prefer to be Exclusive, to Private Individuals.. A Club that you know is so private that you if you spoke about it and the Club found out that you disclosed what occurs in the club you would be banned for life! This club is by invite only and … Continue reading Imagine a Club a Secret Club – would you go?

According to Jay Shetty my ideal partner is the below…


Your Results Are In... Your ideal partner is the Experimental type! You want someone who is the life of the party. They bring energy to everything they do and are great communications. They like trying new things, adventure and exploration. You want someone who can give you new experiences, new memories and constant excitement. My … Continue reading According to Jay Shetty my ideal partner is the below…

Friends with Benefits aka (F’Buddy)


Hey naughty people it's me Candii, So, this is my favorite subject or it used to be when I was "Single", kinda miss it actually, it's like having this male friend with no ties, and feeling so free to talk about anything with and know all the cards are on the table!! I like this.. … Continue reading Friends with Benefits aka (F’Buddy)

When In Rome….. we shall do what others do… RIGHT!!!!


Hi Candii here, Now, this is talking my language, however, a fish out of water perhaps but, would I attend these amazing places.. Absolutely, and I would wear something HOT and Rediculously Slutty, with a touch of Classiness... I think it would be the best fun ever ... a bit like diving into the DEEP … Continue reading When In Rome….. we shall do what others do… RIGHT!!!!

Why Moms Are Important too us…


Hi Candii here, Let me tell you something about MUMs........ my mum and your mum..... I want to tell you why your mother is important to you girls....and boys.... Let's talk about how wonderful my mother was to me yes.. I said, and will repeat these words again... My mother is and was important to … Continue reading Why Moms Are Important too us…

Men also suffer in silence…


Men need Love.. they need US ladies to love them.... so love them please.. https://www.thinkmentalhealthwa.com.au/ https://youtu.be/qF7SRQFd49E   Hey there ladies Candii says,  Don't be hard on our MEN..... they are beautiful and we need to embrace them and love them and tell them everyday just how beautiful they truly are to US and our children.... … Continue reading Men also suffer in silence…

THE IMPERFECT CAKE!


Hey Nightmares and Dreams, Candii here, My Dream....that I had woke up at 2am.. After a heavy sleep and a huge think about life and people.... I came up with a thought... Imagine a Cake that tastes amazing but, the cake by looking at it isn't perfect! Perfect ... what is perfect? Perfect means this: … Continue reading THE IMPERFECT CAKE!

The Liebster Award


I’m honored to have been nominated for The Liebster Award. Thank you so much Undomesticatedbitch, undomesticatedbitch  for thinking my blog is worthy of nomination! That means a lot! This is a great way to discover new blogs…be sure and check out the ones listed in this post! The Rules Acknowledge the person who nominated you. Answer the … Continue reading The Liebster Award

What are the different types of swingers?


Hey Peeps it's Randy Candii, Well, just before I end tonight with my head on the pillow into snorey land... I wanted to put you to sleep with some Randy Ideas for Perth City Swinging sets...  Everything seems to be the go these days with couples being the most popular... Yes, I said, that couples … Continue reading What are the different types of swingers?

What is Gaslighting? it is a turds way of expressing how much of a twatt he really is.. and then you moving to better pastures… just saying…


Psst... Guess What... I too have had this happen...to me...so I slapped him and said, snap out of it... Moron.... anyway to those that didnt do what I did.. read on.... Have a read of what the experts say about this wonderful experience that a lot of us go through and it takes us a long … Continue reading What is Gaslighting? it is a turds way of expressing how much of a twatt he really is.. and then you moving to better pastures… just saying…

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Play together.. so you can Stay together…


https://youtu.be/grj0ffXzTFA   Life is amazing and scary and many, many things the most terrifying moments for me is to be present... Why? Because of never being able to have the present real.. expectations are never true, the expectations of surprise and happiness taken away within an instance and feeling forever feeling never, ever enough for … Continue reading Play together.. so you can Stay together…

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