What happens when our needs are not met?

What does it mean when your needs are not met?

Communication can come into conflict when needs are unfulfilled we tend to feel like we are on a isolated Island and no-one seems to care or want us around them. Unmet needs can lead to feelings that we consider negative like:

  • anger,
  • confusion,
  • disappointment,
  • frustration,
  • hopelessness,
  • irritation,
  • sadness,
  • loneliness and even embarrassment

And many, many other emotions feelings that we are experience in our lives it is a need that requires to be forfilled within ourselves.

Now don’t get me wron there are alot of people who DONT require that loving feeling that seems to be lacking in some peoples lives and they can exisit fine without this however, really this isnt true we end up with the same result.

  • anger,
  • confusion,
  • disappointment,
  • frustration,
  • hopelessness,
  • irritation,
  • sadness,
  • loneliness and even embarrassment

So, sometimes we look for other area’s of our lives to forfill them which can lead to us sleeping around, finding someone else that will or could possibly forfill them or even we tend to make work our priority instead of those who love us but, find it difficult to express their feelings towards us.

We are only human and we must understand we have human needs which is to be loved, cared about, someone that we can turn to and express our feelings, emotions and yes even have sex with…

Many of us forget that we are not ANIMALS we are actually HUMAN beings that want love, we want someone to care about us and we live for others that just understand us..

People think these feelings above are negitives within a human being it really isnt we are nurturing, beautiful idividuals and we want others to like us especially our other halves or those that we are fond of..

I could talk about this subject all day… which I might actually because even I need to remember this that my needs are important and so are those we love.

Appologies, to those that I love I feel sometimes I am just starting my life again and I am just beginning to understand how to walk… so thank you for opening up my eyes.. and I will try my upmost hardest to remember my NEEDS and YOUR NEEDS.



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