The hardest thing in a girls life when they start to be independant, solo for the first time or whatever their circumstances is .. TO ASK FOR HELP!!

As a young girl I was head strong, stubborn (still am actually) pig headed, I knew it all…

However, I “hated anyone knowing I needed someone to HELP ME”

It doesn’t matter how old you get or weather you are a young girl, a young teenager or a young women or even my age we all have the same trait…

This goes also for men and it is even harder for them to ask and say, if you don’t mind I would really love you to “listen to me” without your saying a thing!!!

I even forgot to listen to my friend Katie, when she was talking we somehow without us even being aware that we are doing this we tend to share our feelings when we hear certain things that a person is saying to you.

But, what we forget is to “Stop, wait, listen and hear those words by watching their body language and face and so many, many things we all forget to do..

Luckly, Katie, knows me so well, and said, Francesca, which I then went oh crap I did it again… however, since I have started this counselling I am learning.. and will keep learning until the day I die.. because I love it and I love to help others the difference is now I am starting to “get it” I am starting to understand what that spoken word is and I can do this because I have done alot of soul searching on myself with help of course.

Did you notice something I just said, WITH HELP…. OMG…

So you see my lovly viewers we all need to listen but, most of all we need someone that understands us and will hopefully guild us to a better place within ourselves to live on tis beautiful world called Earth.

Anyway, I wanted to share this again..“IT is the hardest thing to ask…. to allow ourselves to open up and share our feelings, to trust that person that is standing in front of us saying to you I am here and I am not going anywhere…”

And that is my promise…. I will never go away, I will always try and help you that is within my reach or I will definately guild you to someone that can help you better..

And that is My promise to you… love Franny xxx



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