Archive for May 7th, 2018

We where idiots yesterday – And we WILL be idiots today.. so quit wine-ing and trust ya gutts…

When you watch this video you will notice a touch of “Sarcastic Selfishness”, and I laughed because it’s so damn well true!!

As we get older we seem to become harsher or we have become Artists of being The Amazing Victims – or we are just ASS HOLES…. 

Anyway either way the below video made me giggle




How to be a better person in 2018

“Why does being ‘a good person’ have such a bad name?

In the modern world, the idea of trying to be good or kind conjures up all sorts of negative associations: of piety, solemnity, bloodlessness and sexual renunciation.

It’s telling that ‘wicked’ has even become a term of praise.

And yet the project of being good is as vital, or even more important, for the individual and society as is the project of being healthy.

Yet while we have no problem with going to the gym to get fitter, it sounds deeply weird, even creepy, to suggest that one might ‘work’ at being better or nicer…”


I really enjoyed the above video and both of their words because we forget ourselves sometimes our words are lazy and at times can be nasty towards each other because we are suffering silently within ourselves and this seems to be very invisable.. NOT visable.

This behaviour is manifested silently because we are naturally intune people so don’t ever think your “Silent Assassin, and the Subconcious” decided to creep up and made us numb and disconnected but, that isnt us..

We adore each other and MUST forgive one another because that is ALL we have

Be kind to your partners… I love you


Dear Candii, Relationship HIC-UP Line..

Welcome to The Candii Club,

I created this Blog to get a better understanding about myself to learn about my real self so I can finally help those who have suffered the same life experiences that I have endured from for all these years.

My journey has been a “Blessing in Disguise” it has taken me a very long time to finally live my life without regret and live it with a true idea of understanding.

I have to say from the bottom of my “True Self”,  “without those that have supported me throughout my journey thus far”, I would not be where I am today!

My lifes journey has been a lesson and has provided me with the understanding that “Living a Life full of Love & Laughter is the only way to live it!

If you would like to ask us a question to help you live a forfilling loving life please forward your questions below and we will be happy to answer or help you grow..


We have created “Dear Candii,” for those that wish to ask her about anything in relation to love, life, depression, partner help, gardening if you wish, if you would like any advise for her to answer send it below or to our Email



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