Have you ever heard Someone Say:


  I am okay, I have Dealt with:   my husband or boyfriend beating me up ? I have dealt with a child never returning home?  I have dealt with my daughter suicide? I have dealt with being raped? I have dealt with an uncle molesting you? I have dealt with loosing a my unborn … Continue reading Have you ever heard Someone Say:

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Mystery Blogger Award Nomination


https://pointlessoverthinking.wordpress.com made me a great honor by nominating me to the Mystery Blogger Award. Thank you so so much for this! What Is Mystery Blogger Award “Mystery Blogger Award” is an award for amazing bloggers with ingenious posts. Their blog not only captivates; it inspires and motivates. They are one of the best out there, and they deserve … Continue reading Mystery Blogger Award Nomination

Most Strings… lovely


Lyrics: https://youtu.be/CVUOTzoVeZA And meet me there, with bundles of flowers We'll wade through the hours of cold winter She'll howl at the walls Tearing down doors of time Shelter as we go And promise me this You'll wait for me only Scared of the lonely arms That surface, far below these birds Maybe, just maybe … Continue reading Most Strings… lovely

Stop dis-empowering yourself because someone said something that made you feel less than..


This blog post was for a person that allowed those people to effect him Acquiescent Soul   https://acquiescentsoulblog.wordpress.com/   What does it mean to be a warrior? There’s a quote by Chogyam Trungpa that I really love: “The essence of warrior ship, or the essence of human bravery, is refusing to give up on anyone or anything.” So when … Continue reading Stop dis-empowering yourself because someone said something that made you feel less than..

The Generation that avoids a Relationship .. interesting video


https://youtu.be/xzDPbrrTQys This Generation wants the easy way there without the drama, they want to swipe left, right and then never go to a date this generation wants everything without lifting a finger. So, what does this mean? They want everything perfect without the heart ache, winging, weddings, everything how do they do that? Easy they … Continue reading The Generation that avoids a Relationship .. interesting video

Wasteland  Summerfest 2018!


Get ready for the second edition of this Post-Apocalyptic festival full of extraordinary live entertainment by international performers. Summerfest is created for those who dare to be who they want to be… celebrating freedom! To create a unique festival atmosphere Wasteland teams up with Kitkatclub (Berlin), Rapido, Miss Jones and Revolver Party (Berlin). Expect a … Continue reading Wasteland  Summerfest 2018!

To a Dear Friend… and Loved ones…


Hey Candii here, (Before I type this I wanted to say this, when you can't identify a strong emotional feeling by name and you know it's amazing..by how it feels or makes you feel effortlessly well, that is love saying your worth it so take my gift back and make sure you 3 never give … Continue reading To a Dear Friend… and Loved ones…

Do you like wearing high heels in bed?


Hey Candii here, Excuse me tonight I am a little odd tonight but, I am about to forward you some interesting facts about High heels and how it tows into being a bit fetish.. Apart from looking hot, or not, it all depends on the attitude, the outfit if you are lucky enough to have … Continue reading Do you like wearing high heels in bed?

Privacy is number 1 in a kink relationship


Handling different levels of openness in kink relationships can be a challenging dynamic; what we share with the world, where we share it, and with whom. As a self-producing performer and writer, Cameryn Moore is very open about her sex life, and over the past eight years, Cameryn's partners have all had varying degrees of … Continue reading Privacy is number 1 in a kink relationship

What is Gaslighting? it is a turds way of expressing how much of a twatt he really is.. and then you moving to better pastures… just saying…


Psst... Guess What... I too have had this happen...to me...so I slapped him and said, snap out of it... Moron.... anyway to those that didnt do what I did.. read on.... Have a read of what the experts say about this wonderful experience that a lot of us go through and it takes us a long … Continue reading What is Gaslighting? it is a turds way of expressing how much of a twatt he really is.. and then you moving to better pastures… just saying…

What is Gaslighting? it is a turds way of expressing how much of a twatt he really is.. and then you moving to better pastures… just saying…


Psst... Guess What... I too have had this happen...to me...so I slapped him and said, snap out of it... Moron.... anyway to those that didnt do what I did.. read on.... Have a read of what the experts say about this wonderful experience that a lot of us go through and it takes us a long … Continue reading What is Gaslighting? it is a turds way of expressing how much of a twatt he really is.. and then you moving to better pastures… just saying…

Mumma Mia.. Dungeons…. and More European Dungeons…. biting my hand off…


Hi Candii here, Okay, I take back that last post and apply this one as my NUMBER 1 BOX TICKER, Mumma, Mia, check these little beauties out.... If your flying to Europe.. hint, hint honey bunny, you have to at least enter at will and check these out.... I suggest a nice spliff before entry … Continue reading Mumma Mia.. Dungeons…. and More European Dungeons…. biting my hand off…

Why do we put labels on sexual roles?


Just because you may classify yourself as a top or bottom, or dom or sub, doesn't mean you can't enjoy a bit of the other during kinky play. Indeed, Fetish.com says if you scrap the labels and switch things up, sex can be a whole lot more enjoyable... The terms “topping” and “bottoming” paint service-oriented sex … Continue reading Why do we put labels on sexual roles?

Play together.. so you can Stay together…


https://youtu.be/grj0ffXzTFA   Life is amazing and scary and many, many things the most terrifying moments for me is to be present... Why? Because of never being able to have the present real.. expectations are never true, the expectations of surprise and happiness taken away within an instance and feeling forever feeling never, ever enough for … Continue reading Play together.. so you can Stay together…

Mental Abuse – Is ABUSE…


What if I told you that ... I also have gone through this feeling of someone making you feel worthless, never feeling your good enough, and it has nothing to do with someone putting their hands on you.. https://www.facebook.com/JayShettyIW/videos/2052660738381714/?t=43   Watch her body language Have you had this done to you like I have ?  … Continue reading Mental Abuse – Is ABUSE…

Meet the Former Monk – Jay Shetty!


https://youtu.be/OmtV0WwNni8    Hey Candii here, I love this man Jay, he is absolutely correct, did you know I have actually heard these words before the only difference with Jay is his quirk was that he was a MONK... his words are already being used by many. This language he is using is perfect but, again … Continue reading Meet the Former Monk – Jay Shetty!

Play together.. so you can Stay together…


https://youtu.be/grj0ffXzTFA   Life is amazing and scary and many, many things the most terrifying moments for me is to be present... Why? Because of never being able to have the present real.. expectations are never true, the expectations of surprise and happiness taken away within an instance and feeling forever feeling never, ever enough for … Continue reading Play together.. so you can Stay together…

An old friend has visited me again!


https://youtu.be/Q4oInT79CUk   The Sound of Silence what that means to me... is this Nothing in the world is more isolating that lonliness within your soul which I have known this feeling and it seems to love to creep up on me when I least expect it too. The tears that I have wept so many … Continue reading An old friend has visited me again!

Imagine a Club a Secret Club – would you go?


A Club only open to those that prefer to be Exclusive, to Private Individuals.. A Club that you know is so private that you if you spoke about it and the Club found out that you disclosed what occurs in the club you would be banned for life! This club is by invite only and … Continue reading Imagine a Club a Secret Club – would you go?

According to Jay Shetty my ideal partner is the below…


Your Results Are In... Your ideal partner is the Experimental type! You want someone who is the life of the party. They bring energy to everything they do and are great communications. They like trying new things, adventure and exploration. You want someone who can give you new experiences, new memories and constant excitement. My … Continue reading According to Jay Shetty my ideal partner is the below…

Friends with Benefits aka (F’Buddy)


Hey naughty people it's me Candii, So, this is my favorite subject or it used to be when I was "Single", kinda miss it actually, it's like having this male friend with no ties, and feeling so free to talk about anything with and know all the cards are on the table!! I like this.. … Continue reading Friends with Benefits aka (F’Buddy)

When In Rome….. we shall do what others do… RIGHT!!!!


Hi Candii here, Now, this is talking my language, however, a fish out of water perhaps but, would I attend these amazing places.. Absolutely, and I would wear something HOT and Rediculously Slutty, with a touch of Classiness... I think it would be the best fun ever ... a bit like diving into the DEEP … Continue reading When In Rome….. we shall do what others do… RIGHT!!!!

Why Moms Are Important too us…


Hi Candii here, Let me tell you something about MUMs........ my mum and your mum..... I want to tell you why your mother is important to you girls....and boys.... Let's talk about how wonderful my mother was to me yes.. I said, and will repeat these words again... My mother is and was important to … Continue reading Why Moms Are Important too us…

Men also suffer in silence…


Men need Love.. they need US ladies to love them.... so love them please.. https://www.thinkmentalhealthwa.com.au/ https://youtu.be/qF7SRQFd49E   Hey there ladies Candii says,  Don't be hard on our MEN..... they are beautiful and we need to embrace them and love them and tell them everyday just how beautiful they truly are to US and our children.... … Continue reading Men also suffer in silence…

THE IMPERFECT CAKE!


Hey Nightmares and Dreams, Candii here, My Dream....that I had woke up at 2am.. After a heavy sleep and a huge think about life and people.... I came up with a thought... Imagine a Cake that tastes amazing but, the cake by looking at it isn't perfect! Perfect ... what is perfect? Perfect means this: … Continue reading THE IMPERFECT CAKE!

The Liebster Award


I’m honored to have been nominated for The Liebster Award. Thank you so much Undomesticatedbitch, undomesticatedbitch  for thinking my blog is worthy of nomination! That means a lot! This is a great way to discover new blogs…be sure and check out the ones listed in this post! The Rules Acknowledge the person who nominated you. Answer the … Continue reading The Liebster Award

What are the different types of swingers?


Hey Peeps it's Randy Candii, Well, just before I end tonight with my head on the pillow into snorey land... I wanted to put you to sleep with some Randy Ideas for Perth City Swinging sets...  Everything seems to be the go these days with couples being the most popular... Yes, I said, that couples … Continue reading What are the different types of swingers?

If you Dangle a Carrot expect it to be eaten!!! PTSD comes to mind..


I was chatting to my sister-in-law this morning about PTSD, and other things at the end of our chat I brought up Robotic Women in the next 10 years.... what will we expect..? So, I said, well, imagine, one day owe in a future coming sooner than you think! We will have Men/Women Robots that … Continue reading If you Dangle a Carrot expect it to be eaten!!! PTSD comes to mind..

The Secret Warning Hidden In Your Horoscope, Based On Your Zodiac Sign


TIME IS NOW... ZODIACS.... FOR THOSE 3 THAT ARE STUCK..........Start doing...... and planning and most of all having the best time in your lives.. and for gods sakes believe in yourselves...  I didnt do these below but, they seem pretty good..... continue.... love Candii xxx     ARIES (March 21-April 19) Take a break from … Continue reading The Secret Warning Hidden In Your Horoscope, Based On Your Zodiac Sign

Beautifully honest, she wrote, becareful of alone time this can potentially hinder you.. And I agree


https://youtu.be/a92jRPHu9wk Tragically shattered, her bravery alone is an inspiration of all of us!! Hi Candii here, Well, what amazing video of strength and honesty of herself! I wonder how many times she has said the same story over and over to help others and let me add I bet there is a partial bit of … Continue reading Beautifully honest, she wrote, becareful of alone time this can potentially hinder you.. And I agree

A letter I wrote 3 years ago…


Today I was going through my papers to tidy up and I came across this which I wrote to my husband over 3 years ago. We chattered about many things and trust me when you get a little bit older you also will chat about alot of things especially if you have both been together … Continue reading A letter I wrote 3 years ago…

The Train was coming .. A father and Son story…


https://youtu.be/itQVuZearm0   Never ever think that life is a given, we live short lives but, some live even shorter lives, those lives you have to think about before yourself. When you are a single parent you do not have that luxury of slacking off you have to be Mum and Dad.. when you do this … Continue reading The Train was coming .. A father and Son story…

Beliefs are Magical, Mystical and most of all it is Freedom of living


https://youtu.be/kuR5OhK5B_U   Imagine a life of beliefs, Imagine a life of wonderment, imagination, magical events, and Empowerment of ones self... When we are young we imagine so easily, to be a Astranaut, Nurse, Doctor, Priest, getting married, having children, climbing that mountain, running a race ... We all have beliefs sometimes we have those anchors … Continue reading Beliefs are Magical, Mystical and most of all it is Freedom of living

Why is it so hard to just believe someone!! Let your Armour go… and risk by being seen… we are worth it..


https://youtu.be/qnNHzhhVaiU Did you know most comedians suffer from Mental Illness? They use laughter and Comedy to heal themselves or you could say level themselves out.. I get it.. I always mostly always use humour to soften my heavy talk.. because a SMILE, Laugh, and giggle will always change your frame. I guess when I rant … Continue reading Why is it so hard to just believe someone!! Let your Armour go… and risk by being seen… we are worth it..

CHANGE NOW..Before it is too late..


Firstly, this is writen by my own opinion and my life experiences of people, family values,  those beautiful values that have been within us since time began, marriage, unity and love of a couple that Which are these: Trust Honesty Love Loyality Chilvary Honor of one another Devotion Those  values and many more are our … Continue reading CHANGE NOW..Before it is too late..

Lets talk about Triggers that happened to me today…


Lets reframe with my vulgar language this will happen from time to time as I understand, grow and learn how to use better language in expressing my Disgust about how Triggers, effect me when they hit.. (so please excuse me I really do not mean to be so rude...ok, perhaps I do, but, you know … Continue reading Lets talk about Triggers that happened to me today…

Happy Birthday… Jordan x


A Letter to my son who I have not seen in over 15 years.... with so much love... so here is a little of me to you... The above picture I wrote within the first few months mainly because it took me that long to write it or even could write about you.... To be … Continue reading Happy Birthday… Jordan x

Fran’s thought for today.. Embrace your Life… and Live it…. xxx


Imagine a life that you are so loved and appreciated for who you are it would be perfect right! Alot of us including me have said alot on here but, I am going to share some fact about what I am about, I love people, love them to bits, I cannot and will not ever … Continue reading Fran’s thought for today.. Embrace your Life… and Live it…. xxx

Everything Happens for a Reason…


This feeling of walking into YOUR own house at 11pm 6 months after you get married and after finishing a 11 long hours at a hotel at the age of 21 years of age. (Just turned) https://www.facebook.com/JayShettyIW/videos/2041157322865389/?t=12 This feeling of walking into YOUR own house at 11pm 6 months after you get married and after … Continue reading Everything Happens for a Reason…

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