Hi Candii here,
Here I am up early thinking about life and what Love means to people in this world we seem to live in such an era that the internet and people now are very up close and what seems very personal but, there seems to be such an underlining personal agenda of lust.
Have we all lost something within ourselves that we are that empty by looking for another person or idea to Satisify our egos?
The two links about are very different but, very similar Redhotpie is a dating service for couples, singles, threesome, gang bangs, swingers, private parties, cockhold, dogging, foursomes, exhibitionist, voyism, roleplay, etc.. it’s a meat market of people who like to socialize with like-minded sexual beings who are all different but, seems to be a simular theme and that to me is very interesting.. I will explain this in a moment while I tell you about Kasidie’s site.
Now Kasidie, is a site that is obviously evolved into a big business for Travelling Swingers, who do the same thing on a bigger scale, this site is about extreme parties all over the world and clubs that are set for sexual desires that will be fulfilled because they have mastered swinging and have gone wild and wet in USA and beyond.
Both interesting, both are similar, so what is it that seems to be very simular?
Okay, so we now live in a world of people who mostly get married and want to be single? Or is it that we live with a partner love them but, perhaps we as humans require more than just one person?
I really am being very open-minded, I have to be because this is the area of understanding why couples end up at the divorce court and why we all seem very lurid to want more in our sexual life than one person!
I have many questions that I would like to find out by couples that love to swing together do they actually stay together? I would love to ask them what is it that they like about swinging, group sex, sex parties, and many other factors that are out there while all those good couples stay at home having missionary sex!
I wonder if there is many couples that settled?
I wonder because of settling is that the reason they swing for their own frustration of having someone to go home with that loves them or is it more that it’s comforting within themselves that they can do this by swaying the “other” partner over to the dark side so that person in that marriage is finally satisfied with his/her idea of what compensation is within that person settling?
Or am I looking at this totally wrong?
Can anyone out there in word press world who is in a marriage/relationship tell me what is it that both of you get when attending these parties?
We are such a beautiful race of individuals and I don’t really find any of what people do is any of my business but, I will say I get it to a point of wanting to understand more about it!
I have to complete a sexology in two years and I would love to explore my mind of understanding further to why couples want to swing together.
- I want to understand what the pros and the cons of it is?
- And is it real?
- Is it an excuse to have sex with others but, stay together?
- Does anyone get hurt?
- Is it true that if we stay together we can swing together?
It seems that we have so many hidden sexual fantasies within ourselves, is it that we are evolving into a society that secretly wants to be single and having wild hot sex with others without the marriage, consent, or is it that we have been doing this since time began and really don’t care what others think?
Love to hear your thoughts on my post above?
Do you have the any thoughts on what I said above? Agree? Disagree? think i made it up?