A friend asked me once “what are your values?”
I had forgotten what that really means and I had them all along!!!
Oh, wow, this is something I have had within me since time began, however, how did I forget about them?!
Did I forget what my self-worth was once?
Did it slip my mind?
I wonder sometimes how on earth something so embedded deep inside you ends up “missing for action”?
My values, are to be kind to myself and others to understand what the difference between what is right and what is definitely wrong?
I guess we sometimes lose ourselves or our voices not sure which goes first?
I had misplaced it but, did I?
My values are what I stand for as a person, what I believe to be the difference between right, wrong, and just darn horrid?!?!
We end up so busy minded or is it that we just plain forget or do we have so much going on that we forgot about what we held so dearly to us?
I would say it’s everything above and more… we do forget, misplace, our minds with time and other people who could potentially distract you from what you think is right and wrong or perhaps it’s about letting your once good intentions go to see if another or others could potentially be right?!?! (not sure if that makes any sense)
They say in a schoolyard that we can get bullied into saying, doing and acting differently, that is true, or do we get lazy? or are we distracted by negative thoughts that cloud your judgment from time to time??
We do tend to grow in a different direction hoping that direction does not mean the death of your own soul, or perhaps we hope for those we love to see the light of the day and show you something that you have not yet understood?!?
I guess we all have choices and we all tend to forget our voices, own thoughts, even values that once was so held tight that you could taste it on your lips!
Old saying, “You can lead a horse to water, but, if it wishes not to drink you cannot make it drink”
Human nature is all about living a life and that also means making good, bad, and somewhat mind-numbing decisions that once you would go, NO, Way!
And sometimes when that light disappears for a while, potentially when you least expect it will beam through like a light so brightly you can taste it!!
I believe in being true as in real, being real and honest, never lie about something that even if it isn’t right at least you honest enough to say it, do it or even try it!
The best part of values and beliefs is about how well, you rise from the deep shit you get yourself into lol, we are on this earth to live and learn and that is a human ability or in some cases disability if you wish.
But, in all cases, it is about being true to yourself and holding your head up high without any type of significance in return..
Let your ego and your pride relax and let yourself be free… that is what we are all about kindness, silliness, craziness, call it what you will but, always treat yourself with respect and others with the same certainty and life will glide by lovely and a little bumpy but, at least your honest to be who you really are..