Archive for August 15th, 2018

Competition time to Challenge those that think they can do this…….. more to come later….GRAND PRIZE TO THE WINNER!!!

Hey Candii here,

Competition Time……

I have a Challenge for those who think they are worthy of entering this COMPETITION, this is based on your deepest, hidden, secret, no-one has ever heard this spill from your lips Ever!

More to come… So, get your pen’s out …. I want to hear……. TBC… more to come about this competition… you must be over the age of 21 years.

Are you interested in what I have in mind for those who wish to be part of this Competition, and yes, there is a prize Gift for you.

So, firstly this is OPEN to ALL, so no-one on apart from those who are under the age of 21 years of age, which I believe should be older enough to do this.

What do you think I am wanting from those who wish to take up this challenge and win a gift to the value of $200.00

The WINNER will recieve a GRAND PRIZE, that you will all love so it doesn’t matter if you are a girl, boy, both, none, this prize will be perfect for the one who takes up this challenge and wins First Prise, there are clauses to this competition I do have to have over 25 people to send me what is going to be the most exciting Competition that you will want to enter…

So, watch this space and I will tell you later during the week what you will have to do..

Grand Prize is to be Confirmed… later..

More to come with this Competition later……… Candii xxx

The clauses are:

  • You must be over the age of 21
  • You have a flare to writing well
  • Must understand this site is for those that look out of the box
  • Only those that are worthy will be put into a draw to win the Grand Prize
  • Please only those that are interested in hearing more add your details below
  • Only those that have a KINK level of Sexual only apply
  • Do you want to win a Prize over the value of $250?
  • This isn’t going to be easy… however, that is the thing nothing is EASY, now is it?

Only those that think they can please put your details below this Competition is only valid if I recieve over 30 people, that send me a submission of interest..

Are you worthy of being The First Candii Clubs, VIXON, DOM, Master, Slave, Submissive, Kinksters, Swingers couples, this is all to cum…

So, please share this to your friends facebook pages and word press pages… and if you are not in it… then you will not WIN IT…… TBC on Friday for more information……….


A Curious Hungry lil’gal…

A lovely girl whom I will not mention has a few questions of life, love, a curious nature, a free spirit, a wonderment of wonderful asks, a naughty nature wanting more out of her own life and looking into the Taboo.

What to say, how to say things, interestings that some ladies are brave enough to have a voice and isn’t scared to say how she feels.. Sweetheart well done..

There are areas of life that I would love to chat to you over a coffee and not so much on multi media, I believe when areas of our own life is missing we tend to go to other areas of interest which is absolutely normal.

However, My curious lil’gal, I will advise you with the only means of what I know and that is my sweet Italian  is this….. if you are married and it isnt your husband you must ask yourself what it is that seems a miss with him first.

The only reason I say this is to be true to yourself lil curious nature, is that curiousity is fine from a distance which means, you don’t speak, have little chats and long talks on your coffee breaks … Unless, your own side of the fense is aware or is a lost cause.

Never, ever, believe a man that says to you, or at least ask your husband to clarity what “anything means”???? “you can do anything you want as with a man as long as you don’t sleep with him”, I would ask him in detail what that was firstly and the other thing I wanted to say about that statement is WTF does that mean?

Sorry I would actually say it like that, WTF does that mean sweet heart? 

Now, I know you and I believe that your interest is innocent, however, that is where it all starts, my advise is tread very carefully, with this young squirt, because his brooding brow, luring longing to be saved by a much older women who has a cheeky laugh and a curious hungry nature may get herself into trouble 🙂

Now, I say these words with loving and caring with a tad of cheeky sarcasm, yet, I will tell you a wise word of good advise.

If you want to stray because your keen eye, your curious nature, is very, very and very curious, your at that beautiful age like me that your hungry for sexual attention I get it.. but, I have to say my doll, I could never stray with a cat that isn’t quite sure which side of the fence he prefers to bend too.. And I believe your history is limited with a few roving eyes of yours.. and a husband that you married a while back..

Italian girls are very wicked I get it and by nature your passionate, beautiful female inside and out, not all stray dogs are and I believe that you will get hurt if you ponder too much towards him and perhaps hubby may end things with a bang.. or not..

I have been in situations that wasnt pleasant Lil’gal and it ended up with Mental Health issues, plus, a heart that was totally destroyed emotionally deep inside …

So, darling girl, remember never stray unless your want to see yourself single, and free of guilt… because my dearest, you maybe taken for a ride.

Or at least watch from afar and that way no one is hurt…


Just a few wise words of keeping you safe… bless xxx

Young, Dumb and Broke… We both wish you Love read our message….xx

Life is what you make of it… nothing is ever written in stone…



Young, Dumb and broke, what a title and what a song!

Indeed, we have so much in common we argue all the time, you always say I am wrong I am pretty sure I am right!

How profound, we still have love to give, these words are so present with us right now, even though we are not High School kids, sometimes even older “youngish” adults feel like kids.

We still got love to give!

Life is not so funny when you “finally wake up from Hell”, and realise that even though it was not long ago that we where kids once and a little dumb oh, and Broke!

So, remember this when you think all things feel like shit, give yourselves a bit of a break and say to each other, wow, we are alive, we are still together no matter how many stupid ideas we all come up with, well we survived it!

Not one of us is perfect… in anything we do, we try, we live, we make mistakes, we try again harder, and at times we even fall back down again, nothing is ever easy, now is it.

Our marriage has been amazingly, beautiful, challengingly difficult, adventurous, deserving, not so deserving, we both have had many happy moments, extreme levels of sadness, we have struggled, won many, lost many, we have cried an ocean (well I have) worked very hard, lost jobs, lots myself in a bit of madness and we crawled back up again..

If anyone on this planet can tell me that none of the above has not happened to you then I would have to say, Bullshit!

Here are some of our Secret ingredients to living a life better a more positive light!

  • Your love for each other is pure and real never forget that…
  • Try and remember the best times in your life together

Remember that no marriage is easy and if they say it is they are lying!

Do the best you possibly can, because it is worth your time

Never ever settle for someone that you feel does not give you what you give them

Your both individual people so both remember you both do not own each other

Marriage is a unity that is bonded by strength, love, trust, communication and love

  • Tell each other what you want, feel, desire, and listen to each other they are telling you because they trust you…love you and want you to share their life together…

If your partner cheats.. ask what was it that I could not give you that another did

  • Never, ever take each other for granted!
  • Always remember your journey together, it matters!
  • If you ever feel sad tell reach other what it is that makes you sad
  • I believe in saying what you feel, because if you don’t it is so easy to lose that part of you if you dont… so talk to each other!!
  • Remember to tell each other how much you adore one another
  • Hug, Kiss, Hug again, kiss and do it with all your heart because tomorrow may never come
  • As a couple there will always be times to through in the towel, but, remember you wont, why? because the bigger picture is too precious to through in the trash…
  • Don’t be scared to express your feelings it’s a good thing for both of you
  • Never allow yourself to ignore things that will mean the most in how you grew with each other
  • If you feel you both havent there will always be time to do this

Family will always be your family so make the best of a difficult or perhaps great unity it is your birth right to criticize them… 🙂

  • Life is about learning so keep learning
  • To those that do not argue… start discussing what you want from each other and remember an argument is good for you both because there is always “make-up sex”!
  • Laugh together, Cry together, love together, never think that you can’t express what you want to each other
  • Also, to my dear friends your our dearest friends and we love you more today than any other day or those first days we met you as kids.
  • Never, ever think for one moment that you’re not good enough, because you all are
  • Music is the answer so select those moments that you both can enjoy loving words in a melody that means the most to both of you
  • Go for beautiful walks with your family “this is the moment to do it” remember when your kids are fully grown you will miss those beautiful special moments that only last a little while in your parental moment 
  • At the end of the day you both will only have each other so never forget it because you are both the best that you can be as a couple

So, those beautiful words above are real, the mean so much to me and I am sharing them with those that want to read this post… read them together .. please.. because they are from us with love and hugs to you all…

21 years together on the 16th October and I have to tell you it was worth every minute, every living , breathing loving moments of highs, lows, even damn well side ways 🙂

Love Franny and Courtney,

Life is all about learning and it isn’t the destination, it is always the Journey, that you both travel…

So lick the Bloody Spoon or he will do it when your not looking 🙂

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