A Curious Hungry lil’gal…

A lovely girl whom I will not mention has a few questions of life, love, a curious nature, a free spirit, a wonderment of wonderful asks, a naughty nature wanting more out of her own life and looking into the Taboo.

What to say, how to say things, interestings that some ladies are brave enough to have a voice and isn’t scared to say how she feels.. Sweetheart well done..

There are areas of life that I would love to chat to you over a coffee and not so much on multi media, I believe when areas of our own life is missing we tend to go to other areas of interest which is absolutely normal.

However, My curious lil’gal, I will advise you with the only means of what I know and that is my sweet Italian  is this….. if you are married and it isnt your husband you must ask yourself what it is that seems a miss with him first.

The only reason I say this is to be true to yourself lil curious nature, is that curiousity is fine from a distance which means, you don’t speak, have little chats and long talks on your coffee breaks … Unless, your own side of the fense is aware or is a lost cause.

Never, ever, believe a man that says to you, or at least ask your husband to clarity what “anything means”???? “you can do anything you want as with a man as long as you don’t sleep with him”, I would ask him in detail what that was firstly and the other thing I wanted to say about that statement is WTF does that mean?

Sorry I would actually say it like that, WTF does that mean sweet heart? 

Now, I know you and I believe that your interest is innocent, however, that is where it all starts, my advise is tread very carefully, with this young squirt, because his brooding brow, luring longing to be saved by a much older women who has a cheeky laugh and a curious hungry nature may get herself into trouble 🙂

Now, I say these words with loving and caring with a tad of cheeky sarcasm, yet, I will tell you a wise word of good advise.

If you want to stray because your keen eye, your curious nature, is very, very and very curious, your at that beautiful age like me that your hungry for sexual attention I get it.. but, I have to say my doll, I could never stray with a cat that isn’t quite sure which side of the fence he prefers to bend too.. And I believe your history is limited with a few roving eyes of yours.. and a husband that you married a while back..

Italian girls are very wicked I get it and by nature your passionate, beautiful female inside and out, not all stray dogs are and I believe that you will get hurt if you ponder too much towards him and perhaps hubby may end things with a bang.. or not..

I have been in situations that wasnt pleasant Lil’gal and it ended up with Mental Health issues, plus, a heart that was totally destroyed emotionally deep inside …

So, darling girl, remember never stray unless your want to see yourself single, and free of guilt… because my dearest, you maybe taken for a ride.

Or at least watch from afar and that way no one is hurt…


Just a few wise words of keeping you safe… bless xxx

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  1. yes, advice that we all should take, a wise women told me once, that there are Men and Women beyond time and should have been born when this advice is understood, sometimes those who understand … well, for me I would rather a good friendship full of love, and most of all trust than a silly moment of stupidity made up of something that will never work because.. well, people are not that brave…. Been there done that and they where not that brave!!

    Stupidity is my middle name and I should have been born when time understands a nature that is mine…. xxx

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  2. I’ve kept in touch with your posts, and I will say that you have matured quite a bit in such a short amount of time (it’s not to say you weren’t mature to begin with) but the way you write has come a long way, and it’s awesome that you’re open about a lot of things that you desire. I can tell you’re starting to take a step back and analyze situations after they occur and reflect. It’s a beautiful thing. Keep it up!

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