Rewarding oneself with the Temptation of a moment of Selfish Satisfaction!!!
How stressful life would be to sneak around, hide all those apps you protect so much, head down into your mobile phone searching for a moment of Satisfaction from receiving a message, a kiss, a loving gesture that will only matter for that moment until the next person comes along!!
Why on Earth would you do it , when you could experience beautiful moments with that person you chose so many years ago!!
By all means experience endless possibilities together as a couple, but, what is it about having that Cake and wanting another behind their back?
The stress alone will kill ya, don’t you think?
“I love you to the moon and back”, so clique, or is it?
Beautiful sayings of devotion, love, a desire to tell another that you love them!!
We all want to be loved, however, we don’t want to put so much work into it, right?
We then put so much stress and devotion into keeping those who you so-called love, and then looking, searching continually for something to fluff up your EGO!!
All because your insecure about yourself and you think so very little of that beautiful person that you once loved so dearly?
Or did you ever love them in the first place?
Let’s face it … maybe your incapable of loving another person solely, maybe we all are?
Are we that dissatisfied with ourselves that we put so much effort in attaining something that isn’t going to last or only last for a moment!
We then put away the mobile, computer walk away, get angry with those that have nothing to do with what “you did”. but, we then justify ourselves by blaming another for how your actions are deep inside yourself..
I have no answers just questions, many of them…. so I ask, and ask and ask, you are probably wondering why I ask?
Well, because I feel that we don’t use our whole potential as being open, honest with our feelings with one another we choose to hide, not totally tell the truth because we are all scared of rejection, being labelled, looking like a fool, cheater, mean, cruel, selfish, all those and more…
Well, I am going to say it how it is…
“Humans are Selfish”, they want too much and give too little, we all do it, we lie, we cheat on ourselves mostly, we discount our own intelligence, we never stop for one moment, do we?
The Note book, Love this movie, especially this, it is real, true, and it is bound by devotion, love , desire, a true pain in the ass feeling however, passionate with every word they both say to each other….love is hard, it means work and nothing is ever easy..however, it is when you put the hard work into it….
Sexual desires, an urge, a consistent dilemma where you’re wanting validation of your own need or is it just not enough in your own life that you wish to be part of another life for your own tick box?
I really don’t have that answer just yet!
There seems to be an acceptance of “my right to do as I feel no matter at what cost”, we big note ourselves with our “Huge Ego’s, by selling ourselves in a scene that says, “About me”!
How huge is dating sites on the internet? Multi-Media dating or I would call it perhaps a self-satisfaction of validating the worst kind of validation which is “Rewarding oneself by selling our souls so you can feel attractive, attainable, sexually desired, even possibly a validation of self-worth.”
So, at what cost?
Let’s look at searching for sexual validation, self-worth within your self, lack of love, a pure desire to be adored, attractive to another, desired for being a nice person, all these emotions are deserving – however, only to those that are single, looking for love or perhaps are not in a loving relationship however, why stay in a relationship that makes you feel the opposite of what you are looking for within that Married lifestyle?!
Well, sad, happy, belated, whatever, you wish to call it…. it is a bit like this…. “You want your cake and you wish to eat someone elses or perhaps have another piece”.
Very sad indeed, easy enough to fall into this trap of “Selfish, love, more so it is very lazy of you to do this when perhaps you could put the effort into your own life if you feel it is worth it, right?”
- Now, what if you stay in this loveless carnival of bullshit, what then?
- So, again it’s all about have more Cake, right?
- My question is to those that are attached, if you don’t include your partner then why look elsewhere and stay in this marriage or partnership it cannot be because of children, or self-worth, or even a mortgage?
- What is it that those that stay in a marriage also want more without that partner?
All that energy in sneaking around and making sure the other half doesn’t touch your mobile, or laptop computer, or heaven forbid your actually receiving love letters in the post! Ha! Funny, NOT!!!
Perhaps as a couple we are both at fault, we should put in all this effort that we are putting out into the world with those we love, care about, right?
So, how is it that no ones cares enough to help each other – too hard, NEXT victim!!!
End of the day you will repeat it over and over and over again…. with the next person you meet…. until the day you die…. all because of selfish, thoughtless, stupid, ego hot heads who desires others to validate them as a person of sexual significance????
Please tell me if I am wrong???
The truth is…. it is BOTH,you are at fault!!!!!!
Because, you settled with someone who was not comparable to YOU!!!!!! Please tell me that I am wrong?
So, I will leave you with this video clip of what love may mean to some that have a Romantic bone in their body.. like I do…