The Silence of a Women!

When women are Silent this means she is Angry, confused, she is telling you how you made her feel because a silent women is a women that has given up and feels given up on as well!!

Men and Women should always be present never Silent!!!

If you think your silence is helping, well think again!!

A person that says nothing means they are saying “leave me alone you’re not important to me anymore”!


Many reasons, I trusted you, I loved you, I wanted you to show me your face, I never thought “you” of all people to do this to me!!!

My mother used this tool so very well as I was growing up, I felt like the world was against me and that I had done something terribly wrong to her… So, when she stopped hitting me she would then ignore my exisitance, that was more wounding to me than a smack, I would want that more so I knew that she cared enough to clought me!

But, that Silence was deadly, it was so isolating and nothing on this earth was more hurtful than that, I cannot bare others using this form of ignorance, it hurts and potentially can really do some damage to others.

This form of silence is like you are NOTHING to me and you NEVER will be… when a person that you love does this to you for a long period of time you then understand that, you never was anything other than “nothing”, once you see this then you back away and never regain that trust again… it is a very milagnant way of communicating to another..  

The only time I ever use it back at that other person is when I know it is over…. or he/she will never be in my life like they once were … I then close off, ignore them when present and never give up any vibe that once was towards them… 

It is a horrible way to say goodbye…

Men, it is about time you learn something about women. You should know this by heart because it is something that every single woman on this planet does.

Most men worry when a woman yells at them.

Well, don’t worry when this happens or when she blames you.

Don’t worry when she sends you long essays on social media explaining to you why is she mad. Don’t worry then.

Also, you shouldn’t worry when she decides to come all across town to knock on your door in the middle of the night just because she is mad and hurt and wants to talk.

Believe it or not, but you shouldn’t worry when she cries at night because of something you did or said.

Which I do at times when my husband is asleep and my heart is broken into pieces of confusion, I cry silently and then pretend that I am okay the next day.. it is soul-destroying!!

Are you surprised you are reading this?

You need to understand that they are all displays of her love.

Yes, they are all exhibits of how much she loves you, and they are cries for your attention.

So when you should worry?

You should worry when her messages are only answers of one word.

Worry when you notice that she no longer fights with you, worry when she stops crying and knocking on your door. Worry when she stops reacting and talking.

Why should you worry?

You should worry because this only means that you are no longer worth her anger, and you are no longer worth the fight.

Because it says that those flames that burned her passion are now cold as ice.

Worry because a woman’s silence is far more dangerous than her words, her silence can destroy much more than her words ever will. A woman’s silence means you are no longer that person who occupies her thoughts.

You see, women love words, they love to speak their mind because they feel all the words they say, they come from their heart. Words represent the depth of a woman, and they are always genuine.

But bear in mind that women hate silence. They are not comfortable with feelings left unattended, words left unsaid and hearts being neglected.

Her words are her love, and her silence is her departure, as a matter of fact, it is the beginning of the end.

A woman’s silence means she doesn’t care and that she is giving up on you.

She is silent because you don’t deserve her words.

Her silence is only a response to your silence. Therefore, you shouldn’t fear a woman’s heated arguments, the different ways she tries to show you who she is, the tears she cannot hold back because you are her world.

Don’t fear them, simply appreciate them, they are the ways she wants to stay and fight with you because she wants to fight for you. Fear, yes, fear the day this stops, and everything is quiet.

Fear when you hurt her, and she smiles.

And she will smile at you even when she is hurting inside her heart and soul…

Fear when you annoy her, and she doesn’t react. Fear this because it means that she is ready to go and leave you, she is ready to walk out your life.

She is ready never to return back, and you, well you should be prepared to lose the love of your life.

“We rise we fall we rise we fall we rise and live that is what being a spirited female and person we mean what we say, say what we mean”

Categories: Owner of The Candii Club


  1. All I can say is…Amen!! x

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