SLut-o-us Shame, Shame Shaming….

Hey Candii here,
Firstly, you would have to be insane than call me a SLUT out in public, plus it better be only used in a  sentence that I am wearing latex, fish nets with knee-high boots, which I do…
However, only at home with my husband…..  I would beat the living crap out of you if anyone that was using this would towards me….. Be afraid my dear girl or boy, you better either hide your ball sack or your ver jay jay if you used this towards me…. or RUN…

Let’s talk Mamma-to-Mamma…. Girl-to-Girl…. sister-to-sister…

In my opinion slut shaming, especially woman to woman, (sister to sister!), is completely unacceptable.

Woman have been fighting for sexual equality for decades, and each time one woman calls another a slut with the intention to insult, we take a leap backward.

We lose the support we’ve been giving each other, and we lose credibility.
It’s blatant hypocrisy.

Just don’t fucking do it! Get informed and then engage in meaningful, goal-oriented discussion about women and sexual promiscuity in today’s society.
Define the objective, and never lower yourself to a standard of hurling insults just because you may not have solid points to argue.

Better still, if what she’s wearing, or how she’s behaving, doesn’t affect you directly, don’t even worry about it.

Don’t understand why some women like having lots of sex? News flash – You don’t have to!

I have been labeled this title many times let me tell you why this occurred
My first shamed label was because I walked by a group of young adults when I was about 18 at a Sunday Session with my “like-minded” girlfriends.

It was stated by a female that saw her boyfriend say out loud “shit she’s hot”
I was 18, slender, I wore a pair of stone washed jeans a jumper and a pair of suede black stiletto boots my hair was long sandy blonde and I weight at that time would have been 52 kilos.

Looking back I remembered what this girl wore stonewashed jeans, black lovely flat boots, a jumper and she had long dark hair she was a model and worked for a local newspaper.

She was beautiful and should have no reason to use words that put other sisters down.

Now I will tell you what I did when she did this (remember I was only 18)

Once I heard her say this slut-shaming word to me….. I was so angry and shocked mainly because I knew this girl and I also knew she was respected, popular, wore the most amazing outfits. and she really had no reason to say such demeaning words to put down another because of a man said something that made me feel “yeah”.

So, I walked up to her and instead of saying anything I hugged her and gave her a kiss on her cheek.

Her anger left her face and she was shocked by my behavior I then went to walk away and then she tapped me on the shoulder and said I am so sorry.

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What do you think of the above ?
Do you agree or do you disagree?
Do you think us women are making other women harder to fit into a male dominant society?

3 Comments

    1. thecandiiclub

      Well, what that is Jackcollier7 is men are a given when it comes to them saying about “us” females regarding slut, bitch, whatever! But, women are the most difficult we as women tend to put another female down so easily where men stick to one another back each other up rarely say a thing about another man. When women will call each other moles, bitches, sluts, slurries, backstab and so many other things even jealousy, envy and most of all once our fellow girl mates back is turned its like an animal we tend to call each of us out and rarely have each other. Well that is how I have felt with most women…

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