Settling within a Relationship
We tend to do this within our lives at some point it can be our partners, friends, work mates this reason we do this is because of what we only know.
“What we know is “only” what we know”
Settling for someone you know in your heart you don’t love or for someone you don’t entirely want to be with wastes your time and theirs.
The time and feelings you invest in the wrong relationship will make you lose the opportunity to find the right person for you.
When you settle for someone you know you don’t really belong with, you cause a lot of pain and heartache for both of you
In order to have a successful relationship, you must fully understand who you truly are. You should have a good sense of what you are worth.
If you haven’t figured this out, it is unwise to have a serious relationship with anyone else and some people may need years to figure out who they are and what they ultimately want and need in a serious relationship.
How do you know if you are settling?
“Have you ever seriously thought about what your life would be like with someone else?
If your answer is yes, then you are in a relationship with someone you should not be with.
You are settling.
You should ask yourself the following question:
- Do you wish to spend your time in a relationship that is doomed and that will only bring you limited satisfaction?
- If you enter or remain in a relationship with someone whom you know does not possess the qualities that you are ultimately seeking, you have sentenced yourself to a lifetime or disappointments and regrets.
You should never settle (I once did this)
If you know in your core that your relationship is not working after you have already gone through great lengths to fix it, and you still want out of it, then do yourself and your partner a favor and get out.
It’s not loving to stay in a relationship with someone you don’t love.
It’s not loving to you or your partner. Your partner deserves to be with someone who truly wants to be with them.
You also deserve to be with someone with whom you’re psyched to wake up every day.
Don’t allow fear to block amazing opportunities that may be awaiting you.
Take a chance and live as the saying goes feel the fear and do it anyway.