Mindful Sexual E’Trio!

Sure, the idea of having a threesome might seem simple and straightforward, but there are a few things you really need to consider when you’re planning on embarking on the adventure.

Hey, right, do it with her in mind – NOT a male mindset you need to think like us ladies, we know what we like and what we don’t..

Let’s face it we picked you to marry, live with or even we decided with our eyes closed that was a joke 🙂

Choose Your Third Partner Well

Choosing the right threesome partner is a delicate matter – it sure is… bloody hell how hard is it….. seriously … let’s make sex difficult by putting a mans brain into a females brain..hmmm not going to work my friends.. now is it…

Twosome, Threesome, Foursome, no different just more in the bed and the little one said, get a better bed for gods sakes…hehehehe (joking)

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You both need to be comfortable with the third party, whether it is a man or a woman. And although you have to be open-minded, never break your own limits or the rules you and your partner have made up for playing with a third party.

Don’t engage in this practice when you have marital problems.

When things are rocky, bringing someone else into your bed will turn out wrong.

Never presume, nor dictate and always listen to her needs before you put your damn foot in it yet again and yet again….

Oh, yes, stranger danger is a NO, NO……never think for one moment if your partner has ever had perhaps trauma in her/his past be mindful of that and NEVER, ever, do anything that could potentially put her or him in greylands nut house!

Don’t Mix it Up with Porn, and Certainly not with Love

Everything goes smoothly in a porno. In reality, you might have to find the right position or readjust while you “get busy.” What does the other man or woman like? Do you kiss? You have to deal with the fact that body parts can make funny noises you haven’t experienced with your own partner. If anything goes wrong or a position turns out to cause any discomfort, feel free to laugh about it. This will help clear up an awkward moment.

Only in a film do all people love each other dearly. In real life, the third party is mostly for adding an extra dimension to your sex life. Maybe you will learn different styles from the third person.

Attraction is Necessary

You can either choose the man or woman to have sex with your spouse, or let him or her make a choice. Either way, you have to make sure that the third party is acceptable and attractive for the both of you. Don’t force yourself into a situation you’re not comfortable with.

It is sometimes easier for people who all have the same sex to feel attracted to each other. But for a M/F/F or F/M/M it is essential that you all  feel some kind of attraction. Not only because otherwise there might be a lot of pressure on one person to please the other two, but also because of possible feelings of jealousy.

That’s also why during your playtime you should not pair off.

So, considering all these points and if they are done well, threesomes can bring a couple closer together.

It is all about how you look at it… stop searching for answers you will find that the internet is full of good, bad and bloody well hard work..

Plus, the 60’s we didn’t have the internet that is why everything was done at clubs, bars, parties, homes, nothing ever was created without us knowing..

So, put down that computer hardware.. and get some other hardward to share.. 🙂

Candii xxx

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  1. Thanks for the insight! I always wanted to try this 😂

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  2. I had thought alot of people would have commented on this one


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