Men, Do Your Part to Help Women Remove Their Sexual Roadblocks – Please!!!
Sometimes us ladies just want you beautiful handsome bully boys to grab our mind and toss us on the bed and say No roadblocks today I am present and here to stay 🙂
I forget the roadblocks a lot of women have in sexually expressing themselves with their partner whether he’s a spouse of decades or a guy who’s new in her life.
That sometimes it can be difficult for us to say oh for Fing sakes just start already.. if you’re married to a sexed-up niff.. or at least loves that kind of goings on.. then perhaps give her heads up that if she does not get her head together within 5 minutes or so..heheh that her mind was his…or there’s whichever.
Let me tell you something she will or I actually would say oh shit….. and its dropped..lol
So here are some Roadblocks that we seem to get from time to time..
– Being considered slutty or promiscuous
– Being resented or rejected for bringing on performance anxiety
– Fear of scaring a man
– Fear of hearing how a man will feel insulted if she thinks he doesn’t think he knows what he’s doing (even when he doesn’t)
– Having a man have second thoughts about her because “she knows too much”
– Fear of making a man feel that he’s being disempowered or emasculated
– Because talking about sex is awkward
Lots of men talk a good game about wanting a woman who’s a lady on the street and a whore between the sheets, but in the past, I’ve fallen into every one of those situations that I listed above.
I simply don’t get that these fears and realities are deeply rooted in double standards. Men and women are both sexual creatures. Why shouldn’t a woman enjoy sex as much as a man, and why wouldn’t a man want a woman who’s a sexual equal to him? After all, great sex requires two people or three this all depends on the wiring of some…
Isn’t it time that men allowed women to allow themselves to sexually express themselves and communicate without being judged? Are those thoughts, actions and behaviors worth shortchanging and sabotaging your sex life … and her sex life?
All too often, men stray from their relationships because they’re not getting the sex they want at home. When it comes down to that, who’s really at fault?
It’s not just men who create these sexual roadblocks. By the time a lot of women reach the age of being sexually active, they’re had so much conditioning about what it means to be a desirable woman … Be pretty, be feminine, look sexy, but by all means, don’t act sexy. And heaven forbid, no respectful woman should ever like the kinky stuff, let alone think or talk about it.
In a lot of cases, those do’s and don’ts are reinforced by her female friends, family and the media well into a woman’s adult years.
When I put all those things in that perspective, I’m sure a lot of men will think, “That’s a lot of shit for me to take on. I don’t think I want to be pressured or bothered to change my behavior, my way of thinking, and take on the task of helping her unload all that baggage.”
I’m not saying that all that effort can be done all at one time. It may take baby steps and years, but things have to change for everyone’s benefit.
I think those women that just love making out under the stars, boots of cars, parks at night, and dont forget beach front throw the stone into the ocean decked out mansions that have pools and good quality sheets to fuck in with whom she wishs to do this..