You can give someone an advantage or provide them with an opportunity, but you can’t force them to do something if they don’t want to.
A: “I just don’t understand. We’ve given him the very best education and introduced him to the right people, but he just won’t pursue a meaningful career.”
B: “Well, you can lead a horse to water, but you can’t make it drink.”
So, what does the above mean – it means many different things to many different people and with saying that with a cheeky grin on my face well, come on, if your saying that to someone your friend perhaps (like-minded mate perhaps) about another and your scratching your head thinking, I don’t understand that this person cannot get it to mate!
Oh, come on who are you kidding?
That is simply a stupid thing to say, I don’t understand why that person isn’t getting it?
Hmm, let’s think about this… here is another old saying, “Practice what you preach”, so what does that saying mean to you?
- To do the things or behave the way that one advises, dictates, to say this saying you better back it up… for example
My parents always told us to respect each other and not to bicker, and they really did practice what they preached.If you say that someone practices what they preach, you mean that they behave in the way that they encourage other people to behave in.He ought to practice what he preaches.
So, to be ignorant to one’s values of opinion if you say something to someone and you either are saying it because you want to be that way? or Are you just saying it because it sounds good? or option number 3. Remember what you say to another becareful that if you are not trying to practice it yourself then seal those lips…
For me, I use a lot of old fashion values and behavior at times not all the time I will admit that.. but, I do have a very stubborn nature but, that is me and if you don’t like it then bite me!
I think we all gravitate to those that are similar nature or you could say Creatures of the same bad habit! Or like-minded mates, friends groups of people that get our bad behavior because those that we gravitate to are the same type of character.
I know myself that confusion and frustration will sneak up all because of knowledge, we can say what we think and be true, however, ask yourself this, “Is it that important to you that you “must” make it difficult or is it that important to win something that your both fighting hard to happen?”
Let me give you an example… “I want to live a happier life by being open and honest and letting go of my past and embrace a wonderful life going forward with real people..I want to be free of myself and allow myself the happiness with people that I trust because my past was hurtful and everything I once believed in hurt my soul so I closed myself off and I only show it once in a while..But, it makes me sick and tired of being so unhappy and why is it so damn hard when all I want is to be me and have people around me that do not judge me but love me and ect.. ect…Now that is the end game for some people…. well for me it is and those that understand what the above means..
Head scratching moment?
I am not pig-headed … you are… I am smart, you are just stuck… !!
Be careful of your own fears they will sneak up and you will go back to old habits that do not work but, are effective in a very negative way!!!
If anyone understands the above please comment it would be nice to know that I am not alone on this confusing Earth that wants to be happy but, retracts and blames another?
The reason why I do what I do is that I do, the reason you do what you do is that you do, so think about where we all are… we are aware of each other however, we make it difficult for each other…
So, to stop playing a game is to be true to yourself, it is easy to stand and have the knowledge but, be careful that you do not “Cutting off your nose to spite your face”
What does that expression mean?
“Cutting off the nose to spite the face” is an expression to describea needlessly self-destructive over-reaction to a problem: “Don’t cut off your nose to spite your face” is a warning against acting out of pique, or against pursuing revenge in a way that would damage oneself more than the object of one’s anger.
Really the answer they describe is a little bit “out there” basically it means, really? is this really how you want your life to keep being?
Knowledge is powerful I agree, however, it isn’t when you use it in an opposite ass end of it now, is it?
My thoughts are this… I am not playing or empowering anyone’s ego, nor am I going to enable your lazy attitude…. I am being honest and standing my ground for me… I am not being hurtful nor am I going to listen to your dribble or rude behavior that is so wrong and so hurtful that I even struggle to see why am I here trying so hard when others really don’t either think about it or are that full of there own self!!
STOP it, or I quit!!
I am 50 now…. I have limited happy times and some okay times and a few awesome times.. I want every moment to be happy times going forward…
At this present moment guess what…. I am solo and lonely and unhappy living a life that is becoming toxic.. all because of ignorant behavior!!!
I will draw my own line for me.. because I am worth it… are you?
Can you say to yourself…. that you have done your best in living your own life and being honest with yourself and those that your both complaining about???
It is easy to lie about oneself it is not easy to continue a lie… it is built on bullshit and nothing…
Perhaps quite the bullshit and use the Goodshit…. or perhaps stop carrying another and be you… and stop blaming the one that trys… hard to be who she is…..