Embrace Life by letting go of the bullshit… By being Empowered about the GOOD SHIT …


Always Remember Everything in Life happens for a reason to embrace it because it will teach you things that are very valuable!

My Lesson in Life will always be true to who I am … that is all I can be so take it with a pinch of salt because that is just who I am…Franny xxx

To those that have helped me … I love you and I appreciate you and I have never taken you for granted thank you with all my heart xxx

If teachers could include some of these wonderful tools for our children to learn before they head out to an experience I believe it would be a valuable tool for them.

I wish I knew what the following really meant to me as a spirited young female back in those days that I required further understanding.

When we are young we never think about when we are older so perhaps even with all these tools would we have really listened?

If we just thought a bit more about our loved ones more than we thought about boys, girls, cars, traveling, all these things matter yes, however, imagine if we did learn some of these things… before heading out into the world..of boys, girls, cars, travelling, still I could be wrong.. just reflecting… keep reading ūüôā

Here are some that I just started to understand myself:

How wonderful it is to feel what it feels like to be

How easy it is to change and then change yet again

What to expect if I was a new mother and how to live better, raise a child, to give more

I would have loved to know what “True Love”, really felt like, not the hurtful love but, true love is given back without question…

To understand me more with Confidence and to know that I was smart as a child

What it felt like to have a mother that truly loved me without anger, hostility 

To  laugh a little harder and longer, remember what it was like as a child before I needed to alter myself

To care more for others – as I reflect I feel a little sad that I lacked compassion, love, understanding and was more present with others

To not fear that loving feeling of what it is like to give your heart more instead of protecting it from those that could hurt you

I would have been a better mother if I only knew what I didn’t know

To never think I had no other option in life

To feel more worthy of myself and those that I cared about

To be more understanding and to listen and to trust myself without feeling that I lacked in confidence

To be present Рhow to understand what that really felt like 

To be brave at an earlier age that would have been awesome

To never take people for granted and to thank them for their support most of all (pretty sure I did but, maybe I didn’t enough)

To understand is a valuable lesson our children should have been told about the simple things in life… Love, Trust, Honor, Loyalty, understanding, Appreciation, Caring, Compassion, to be present, a belief in others, what commitment really feels like,¬†¬†sometimes I feel these “values” so many values I could list!

Things that no-one ever should do to a young person – this is what I know

  1. Curiosity is the spice of life!
  2. Never kill child’s spirit it is the essential part of their true self
  3. Always understand that experience is 101 in this life without it we would never appreciate the sweet with the sour!
  4. Tell your children to tell the truth – never lie about a thing! (it is harder to tell lies as they are made of nothing)

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In reflection this was working in the Hotel, I loved this role and the people I met, worked with I had a ball of fun.

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To feel love and understand it more with respect and the honor it requires sounds weird but, I do wish that I knew more about what this really feels like – to be loved and to love someone without feeling that it isn’t something that is expected (don’t read into this, of course, this was in reflection to being younger)

Remember everything in life is an experience this is made up of the good, the bad and the darn right awful!

However, if you do ever experience the bad and the awful, forgive yourself and let it go!

Life is about living if you do not let it go… then your life will be limited… so Live it with an understanding that life is and will always be.. sometimes good, sometimes amazing, most times just awesome… and there are times that you could do without… let those go and embrace the good shit!!!

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