What You Should Consider Before A Threesome by Candii…


Here are my suggestions before you both go wandering down the threesome line…

It’s a common assumption that after you’ve decided to have a threesome, and you’ve found your unicorn, everything will be smooth sailing.

  • Now your probably wondering what I am referring to as a Unicorn?

It is simply a person who likes having sex without getting emotionally involved in either an MMF or an FFM threesome and I have to tell you who the hell does not get involved?

Now, me personally, I have to say it takes quite a brave soul to do this act and I am not one for saying it isn’t a good idea all I am saying it isn’t as easy as you may think!

They are in fact hoping this soul is going to not get attached, feel, emotionally involved? Yes,? No? Friends-With-Benefits

Come on!!

Bit harsh arent we to think that someone who has a heart, soul, feels, loves, breathes, walks, eats, speaks, etc… has no feelings???

Unicorn my ASS, of course, they have feelings.. and yes, you both will care for that person just as much as they would for you both or each one or separately!!!

A person with feelings and emotions just like anyone else yes, of course, you get attached you start to think how do they feel, I hope I haven’t hurt them, I really like their company. they make us feel cared for love, so many emotions its off the tracks…!!!

It seems a lot of couples these days around the age group of myself and my husband are actually actively looking, searching for this “1” person that will fit their spot so to speak..

However, as I said, it is not as easy as A B or C, and if you end up with a D’well, it isn’t a threesome now is it… (removing the humor for a moment)images (13)

My points are this before you even think about a third person you both must do this:

  • Communication is the key to a better understanding of what each of you wants in hunting for this special person who will fit your needs.
  • Secondly, Communication, you must talk to each other over and over and over again this isn’t as much fun as you think, however, it is fun in discovering that you and your partner are open to ideas that maybe something that you both desire.
  • Have fun!!! Be playful and never, ever put each other down because it is special, pat each other on the back more and say wow, just to think about this is amazing, if by chance you do meet some potentials please make sure your kind, not rude, and treat them carefully because they do have feelings..
  • Never allow one person to lead this because it is about both of you not just your husband or your wife, or singularly it is about both of you!!!
  • Always understand that you will both have days of not talking to each other you will have days of being insecure and you will have days of nothing happening and most of all you will not talk to each other which is silly really, because it is such a brave act to do..
  • Remember if you pick a person based on nothing it will be just that however if that is all your after then that is fine, however, human nature isn’t so easy when doing such an act… It is intimacy and with that, it is about connection, love, kindness, gentleness, and a lot of stuff happening in the bedroom woopie!!!

Here’s what you should consider before a threesome to make it the best experience for everyone involved. b5cfd-groupsex

Then communicate, laugh, love each other for being so damn strong and getting where most don’t and you must be honest never go into this with lies.. it won’t work…

Lies are based on nothing… 

The truth is the Truth it will come out and it will bite you on your BUTT 🙂

ALways remember whoever you decide in doing this with you make sure they are as chilled as you pair because they are “as” important as the “both” of you as a couple without great chemistry, connection, a comfortablility factor, and many more flavors guess what? 

It wont be on like Donkey CON BABY!!! 

To have a threesome and have it work well guess what once you and your partner have worked your “shit” out then its all about “Set and Settings”.

Where and When???? I know, you might even have to speak to the third about his or her needs jesus, who said, things ever are EASY??? “

I never said, it would be a walk in the park?

or could it be???

Anyway, keep reading it isn’t over until it is over baby (life is like a bowl of rice bubbles.. you just don’t know when it will …..

Snap, crackle and Pop!!! , Now do you?? (he, he)

Remember whether you both do it or not … life isn’t over, it isn’t going to kill you both it isn’t a drama and you both haven’t killed anyone… so relax and again praise yourselves for being brave, kinky-minded and a little dare to bare is okay..

Just remember if you do want too… then talk about it, select wisely, and never regret what you both decided because it is about you, her, him, and even that brave soul being the 3rd to even want to be part of you two..

The third wheel is a delightful soul that is also searching for love, fondness, a pair of nice people that will at least care about that person….

Weather friend, mate, stranger, it is all the same.. never make them not part of it because they do matter a damn lot….

And, enjoy it…… 🙂

I may add to this later if I can come up with other thoughts…

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Always remember it was “you two and a third” who do you choose?

Hmm, let me see, my suggestion is this, whoever it is don’t put too much into who it is more if it fits it fits if it doesn’t well it doesn’t… and it will be whomever it will be..

 

Chemistry is just that folks you either got it or you haven’t the rest is history folks!! Like they say on Tv..

OR Leghorn says it better I must admit… good hunting people… and may I wish you all the luck of the world… “Remember to blow on it 3 times and throw it over your left shoulder”, now of course you have to watch leghorn to the end to understand what i am referring too..

Life is whatever you wish my friends try not to focus on the shit stuff, more the good stuff and enjoy ur life!

Candii xx luv and hugs xx

Categories: Owner of The Candii Club

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