Question Time: What Is Love?




Before I do this I came across this via ward clever’s post

Have a view you will notice that I have pretty much argued the point with this lovely person who allowed me to use his post because I found it interesting..

I noticed most people stayed within the either A or B answers and explained themselves the reasons why.. then you have Me, a very irritating, annoying and most of all opinionated female that seems (rolling my eyes typing this) to make it her business to argue and decide to look outside the box by challenging these two answers.

So, I am hoping that some of you or at least a few of you will answer this questions he posted however, I am going to put a few “other” answers to his original post.





Question Challenge – think about it for a while, and then answer. Stare at the picture if you need to. This is purely hypothetical, of course, so give a hypothetical answer.

A real, genuine hypothetical answer.

Would you rather be married to or exclusive with

A) someone who doesn’t love you?


B) someone who you do not love?


C) Explain why you could not do either of the above?


D) My want is just SEX so, I do NOT NEED to love a person to do so, if you answer this one you must explain why you answered this..

In other words, is it more important to love or be loved?

What do you think is the difference between loving someone and being in love?

And do you think it would be harder to tell someone you love them when you don’t know if they love you, or to tell someone who loves you that you don’t love them?


So, above is his question to his blogging mates… what is your thoughts on the above?

I would loveeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee to hear from you on these questions via comments

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As a young girl I was head strong, stubborn (still am actually) pig headed, I knew it all…

However, I “hated anyone knowing I needed someone to HELP ME”

It doesn’t matter how old you get or weather you are a young girl, a young teenager or a young women or even my age we all have the same trait…

This goes also for men and it is even harder for them to ask and say, if you don’t mind I would really love you to “listen to me” without your saying a thing!!!

I even forgot to listen to my friend Katie, when she was talking we somehow without us even being aware that we are doing this we tend to share our feelings when we hear certain things that a person is saying to you.

But, what we forget is to “Stop, wait, listen and hear those words by watching their body language and face and so many, many things we all forget to do..

Luckly, Katie, knows me so well, and said, Francesca, which I then went oh crap I did it again… however, since I have started this counselling I am learning.. and will keep learning until the day I die.. because I love it and I love to help others the difference is now I am starting to “get it” I am starting to understand what that spoken word is and I can do this because I have done alot of soul searching on myself with help of course.

Did you notice something I just said, WITH HELP…. OMG…

So you see my lovly viewers we all need to listen but, most of all we need someone that understands us and will hopefully guild us to a better place within ourselves to live on tis beautiful world called Earth.

Anyway, I wanted to share this again..“IT is the hardest thing to ask…. to allow ourselves to open up and share our feelings, to trust that person that is standing in front of us saying to you I am here and I am not going anywhere…”

And that is my promise…. I will never go away, I will always try and help you that is within my reach or I will definately guild you to someone that can help you better..

And that is My promise to you… love Franny xxx


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