I believe in many levels of this title a sexual experience is a personal choice and should never be discounted for any of those that share an experience.
Listen to the music oldie but, one yell of a damn goodie.. let me tell you xxx
I have this belief and I have a very close idea of how I see my own self in this experience with anyone if I do not receive that respect then it isn’t cool and it isn’t right for any person having any type of growth in understanding themselves or the respect for those that you select in your life especially your private sexual life.
Everything happens for a reason and don’t ever think for one moment that it won’t come back and bite you if you do not put these rules in place for your own self and this will be seen by those that you share an emotional and sexual experience.
Memories of being young and feeling foolish appears so easily and a little horrific when you don’t put your own rules in place for your own self because it doesn’t matter how old you are in life if you have no respect for your own needs then how the hell are people who you have a sexual relationship with would value you as a person.
However, as you get older and wiser, you must also understand that men and women do think and feel differently I am aware of each persons behaviour and also you need to be also aware of each persons understanding and experience in ones life.
We are all a working progress there is an area of “knowing and understanding” are very different so be respectful to those that do not understand this could be because of their lifestyle or limited belief of what could potentially be or perhaps a trauma that occurred in their life as well no difference between a male or a female..
So is there area of error and forgiveness , of course there is.. as long as you understand and grow from what you didnt understand however, can move to believe and grow in a better understanding of yourself and those that you share your experiences and lives with…
No one is perfect so we should never judge each other on simply what we didnt know…
It’s a two way high way, not a one-way space station!
You can meet people in life and like them and then you can meet people and experience intense moments of pleasure but, be damn sure I don’t want to experience any sexual experience with someone that isn’t mature to understand my values..
If I was in a place that my partner decided to make a decision for me without my knowledge be damn sure I will say something whether right, wrong or whatever… all this means is have the decency to communicate your wants, needs, desires and kinks to that person your loving in life because if you don’t the value will devalue and the love and trust you had once will disappear and unfortunately it will never return.
Like I said, make sure you communicate clearly your desires it isn’t scary to do it is, however, the best way to identify if you have chosen correctly and if you haven’t well, then you need to make a decision to leave.
No one in life is Free of this excuse I am afraid no one is… so make sure you say what you desire even if it sounds stupid, foolish, silly or a little bit naughty!
I do, I get told off all the time.. but, at least I am honest!!
And, I never feel bad about what I say I, in fact, find it refreshing and empowering!
The only time I ever get upset and tired of things is I find sometimes people can make many moments more difficult than it really should be.. and if it is then making sure you understand that difficult isn’t a bad thing it means you care deeply about what you do and who you do it with..
That my friends is called love….
You see if you trust yourself… because if you do… then your experience could be an amazing moment or moments of more amazing experiences…
And that is called Growth!
The more you believe in yourself the more your value is credible and the more your inner sexual being becomes fully alert of who you really are, that is how I see what could be within a sexual private moment or moments.
And that is called Trust…
There is also another thing to remember … there is nothing wrong with fucking like animals as long as you all are on the same page and not on separate books because that isn’t communication, that is a disaster ready to happen!
Life is about learning and understanding and forgiving and listening and growing and saying how you really feel without feeling shameful, without feeling like your the twisted little sister (me) lol and it can lead to silence because what is the worst you really could say to that sister that seems to say it anyway!
Just saying, life isn’t difficult it only means trust who you really trust and go with what you know now.. and grow and understand with an open heart because we are all fragile especially now as we get older we want so much more…
than some fuck with someone that you just met right?
And will never see again, to me that isn’t growing that is just sex!
For me, sex and understanding is a level that is higher than ones who said, “yeah, last week I fucked this chick, right, and yeah she had big tits.. boring!!! However, if you firmly believe that is what turns you on.. well believe it then, however, your vocabilary may improve when you learn something much more hotter than some fucking of some chick you can’t recall her name but, you can recall her tits…really??? wow!
Life, love, and a sexual comfortability is trusting yourself and pushing your present understanding but, with a level head and not a stupid once off a speck of nothing.
However, each to their own.. for me I am a little wired differently and I know what I would like in a superb display of revolting animal sex in the privacy of those that I am truly comfortable with and trust with my entire worth!
I only know what I know…. but, what a future it would be… oh my gosh… my imagination is desturbingly awesome…….YES!!!